Ten minutes. Two people. One card.
Most couples talk all day about bills, chores and plans. Unbottle makes room for the rest.
You ask
Read the card out loud to your partner.
They answer
You just listen. Tap the card when you want to go deeper.
Then swap
Tap Next and it’s their turn to ask you.
What do we argue about that is really about something else?
Tap to flipWhat do we argue about that is really about something else?
- What is underneath it?
- When did you first notice this?
- What would help us catch it sooner?
First answers are polite. Go deeper.
Flip any card for three follow-up questions that get to what you really mean. If something feels heavy, stop for a breath or skip the card. There’s no score and no rush.
A deck for every kind of night
Pick what fits the mood.
Love
The heart of you two.
Affirmations
Kind words, said out loud.
Dating
Stay curious about each other.
Self
Who you are becoming.
Family & Roots
Where you both come from.
Intimacy
Closeness, desire and trust.
Private by design
What you say to each other stays between you.
- Your answers are spoken, never recorded
- No ads, and we never sell your data
- Journal notes are only for you
- Delete your account any time, in the app
Start talking again.
Unbottle is coming soon to iPhone, free for everyone.

